Wedding Elegance

Was at my daughter's wedding last night and it was a splendid affair, nearly perfect. One troubling thing I did notice. I dressed up pretty nicely -- navy blazer, tan slacks, white shirt, gold tie, but in the reflections of the house windows, I STILL looked a bit like an ape. A lot of people stop me right here and remind me that these kinds of affairs are not about me. Did you hear what I said? Ape. I looked like an ape. Dressed up. Not about me? The hell it isn't.